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Preview of Understanding Caring
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Good personal care is
of vital importance, both to maintain the morale of the person you are
caring for, and to prevent minor health problems developing into more
serious ones.
Bathing
A daily bath or shower is essential to maintain cleanliness
and prevent odours which can develop quickly if a person is immobile.
This is an area in which safety is of vital importance; your local occupational
therapist, district nurse or the Disabled Living Foundation may be able
to suggest useful pieces of equipment to make bathing easier and safer.
Before you start to give someone a bath or shower, make sure that you
will be able to accomplish the task and that help is available if needed.
Do not use soap if the skin is irritated; alternatively
switch to non-irritating soap. Change the water whenever necessary (and
also if it cools down). Wear disposable plastic gloves when you wash
an inconti-nent person for your hygiene and safety, because of intestinal
bacteria. Dry the skin well, especially in the folds of the skin (groins,
armpits, between the buttocks and between the toes). This will prevent
irritation and soreness developing. Some patients enjoy washing their
own hands and face, and may want to wash their hands actually in a bowl
of water. This can be balanced on the bed. Allowing the person to wash
around their own groin, if able, maintains dignity.
If bathing is too difficult showers are a good alternative
but can be expensive to fit. A much cheaper alternative is to buy one
of the rubber sprays which can be fitted over existing bath taps and
make an effective substitute for a proper shower. Someone who is unsteady
would be better sitting on a bath board rather than standing to have
a shower.
After washing be sure to rinse well and dry the skin thoroughly, especially
between fingers and toes. Pay attention to the underarm area and folds
in the breast or groin region. Baby lotion or oil will keep the skin
supple and prevent it becoming dry and flaky. A bedbath is a refreshing
alternative if a bath or shower is difficult.
If
possible, a daily bath or shower maintains cleanliness. |
After
washing, dry skin thoroughly. |
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ESSENTIALS
FOR BATHING |
- A non-slip rubber bath mat (available
from chemists) is advisable, although these are not suitable
for some modern fibreglass baths.
- Stick adhesive shapes with anti-slip
surfaces to the bottom of the bath.
- Side rails on baths are sometimes useful
but do not always provide sufficient leverage. It may be necessary
to fit a rail across the bath and secure it to the taps.
- Bath seats can make it easier to get
in and out of the bath.
- If your relative prefers to bathe alone,
make sure that the bathroom door is not locked and you are
within earshot.
- Drain the bath of water before getting
the person out. If the water is left in the bath it will act
as a suction holding the bather in the bath.
- Installing a scald-proof temperature
control on the water heater is a useful precaution.
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| HOW
TO GIVE A BEDBATH |
| Washing
can be tiresome and painful for someone who is frail and ill.
Ensure that you discuss bedbathing with the person you care for
and decide on when he or she feels up to it and what time of
day is best. Also find out what he or she wants to wash alone.
For someone who has to spend long periods of time in bed, washing
that persons hands and face regularly is very refreshing. |
To
wash someone in bed, you need:
- A bowl of warm water
- Towels and flannels
- Soap.
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Make
sure that you will not be disturbed and that the room is warm
and draft free. Place a towel beneath the person you are going
to bedbath.
Help with undressing and leave him or her covered with a top sheet
for warmth. Wash and dry every part of the body in turn (first
the face, then the chest, etc.). Keep to the following routine:
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Then
you may wish to dress the upper part of the body to ensure warmth
and dignity.
- Legs
- Lower body and groin.
Change the water. You can then roll the person
on to their side to wash:
- Lower back
- Behind the legs
- Buttocks.
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Ear care
Before performing any task like this be sure to wash
your own hands properly. Wash ears daily in warm water and rinse well
before drying thoroughly. Do not use cotton buds to clean the inner part
of the ear, as it is easily damaged. Consult your GP if wax is a problem.
Eye care
Using a small wad of cotton wool soaked in warm water
which has previously been boiled, cleanse the eyes from the nose to the
outer edge. Use a separate piece of cotton wool for each eye. This will
clear the eyes of sleep that accumulates overnight and prevent
soreness.
Hair care
If hair washing is difficult using a sink or you cannot
do it in the bath or shower, there are aids that will help. You may find
it easier if your relative has the bowl of water on the knees and bends
the head forward.
Alternatively, you can buy a hair washing bowl to use
in bed. You and your relative may prefer to have a mobile hairdresser
who will
come to your home and women especially often find having their hair done
a good morale booster.
Mouth care
Teeth should be brushed carefully so as to avoid gum
damage. An electric toothbrush is an easy way of maintaining independence
in
mouth care. Some dentists make domiciliary visits if your relative cant
get to the surgery. Contact the British Society of Dentistry for details
of your nearest dentist
with an interest in people with a disability. Mouth washes are refreshing
and help to keep the mouth clean but are not a substitute for teeth cleaning.
If the lips tend to become dry or chapped, try applying lip salve.
It is important to care well for dentures. If they
do not fit properly eating and speaking clearly may become difficult.
Dentures should never be cleaned with toothpaste, which is too rough.
You can buy special denture pastes, although cleaning with a nail brush
and ordinary soap is just as effective. While dentures are out the mouth
can be rinsed and gums gently massaged with a soft toothbrush to remove
any debris. Food particles trapped under dentures may cause ulceration
and discomfort. Check regularly with the dentist that dentures continue
to fit well. Weight loss may alter the fit and mean your relative is
likely to experience friction and a sore mouth.
Nail care
Toe and finger nails need to be kept short to prevent
skin damage from scratching. Toe nails should be cut straight across
and finger nails rounded with the rough edges smoothed away. If your
relative has problems with ingrown toe nails, or you are having problems
cutting his or her toe nails, then he or she will need to see a chiropodist.
Ask your GP for a referral. Anyone with diabetes needs thorough and care-ful
foot care, and must also see a chiropodist regularly. Socks need to be
changed daily. Avoid powdering the feet as powder can accumulate between
the toes causing sweating and infection.
Finger
nails should be kept short and rounded with rough edges smoothed
away |
Toe
nails should be cut straight across |
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Over long nails cause injury |
Dont cut nails too
short and down at the sides |
Shaving
Electric razors are easier to use than the traditional
wet razor if your relative has poor vision or an unsteady hand.
Disposal of waste
You should always wear disposable latex gloves when
you are dealing with a persons body fluids such as blood, urine,
vomit or faeces. You can get gloves from the district nurse or the chemist.
Gloves should also be worn if you are dressing open wounds or giving
an injection.
A disposal service for soiled incontinence pads is
usually run by the health authority or local authority (check with social
services).
Dispose of faeces down the toilet. Place soiled gloves,
wipes, pads and the like in a plastic bin bag (you can get ones that
are scented with a deodorant) and dispose of them in the dustbin. Always
wash your hands after doing any task like this. If you have needles and
syringes to dispose of seal them in puncture-resistant tins or special sharps
boxes ask your district nurse for advice.
| HANDLING
AND DISPOSING OF WASTE |
Always
wear disposable latex gloves |
Wash
hands thoroughly afterwards |
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Place
all soft waste in a strong plastic bin bag |
Any
needles and syringes must be sealed in puncture- resistant containers |
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Dressing
Do not rush dressing. If one side of the body is weaker
than the other it is usually easier to begin putting clothes on this
side first. When undressing take clothes off the stronger side first.
Clothing can be adapted to make dressing and undressing as easy as possible.
Zips and Velcro are easier to manage than buttons for people with limited
coordination or manual dexterity. Socks should fit well and not bunch
up under the toes, where they could cause pressure problems. Avoid elasticated
tops which can restrict the circulation or make feet swell. Tights may
be difficult to get in and out of and many women prefer stockings or
pop sox. It is important that shoes support the feet well. It would be
best for your relative not to wear slippers all the time as they can
allow the feet to swell. Techniques for dressing and adapting clothing,
and aids for dressing and fastening, are discussed in the Disabled Living
Foundations excellent booklet All Dressed Up: A Guide to Choosing
Clothes and Useful Dressing Techniques for Elderly People and People
with Disabilities. They also produce a range of other useful factsheets
on clothing and footwear.
Eating and drinking
It is important for everyones physical and mental
well-being to eat a nutritionally balanced diet. Nutritional requirements
vary according to age, activity and health. In general a healthy diet
should contain reasonable amounts of protein, fibre, minerals and vitamins
but not too much sugar or animal fat. Whole grains, cereals, fresh fruit
and vegetables are high in vitamins and fibre, and so should be eaten
as often as possible. Fibre is especially important in helping to prevent
constipation in someone who is immobile. If you are concerned about your
relatives diet, your district nurse or GP can advise you or refer
you to a dietitian for more specific help.
If the person you care for has a poor appetite it may
help to serve small meals which are light and nutritious and attractively
presented. Allow plenty of time to eat meals and serve them in comfortable,
quiet surroundings. Remember, if your relative spends a great deal of
time in bed they may not have a big appetite. In any case it isnt
easy to eat lying down, so it may help if they can have their meals sitting
at a table. If your relative has difficulty getting food to their mouth,
you may need to help them, or you can buy specially adapted crockery
and cutlery (an occupational therapist will be able to advise you on
this). When you are helping someone to eat, sit beside them and offer
small mouthfuls, allowing plenty of time for chewing and swallowing before
offering a further mouthful. Consider ways of keeping food hot (like
stay-warm plates) if time is needed to finish a meal.
Confused people sometimes lose concentration when eating
so it may be advisable to sit with them and prompt them to eat. If chewing
is difficult, reducing the size of mouthfuls and providing a drink with
meals can help. A speech therapist will be able to give advice on chewing
and swallowing difficulties. Check also that dentures are well-fitting
and in place at mealtimes. If necessary mash or liquidise food. If your
relative is eating only a small range of foods you may want to consider
vitamin supplements.
Communication
Communicating effectively with the person you care
for is vitally important. Difficulties in this area can be very frustrating
for both of you. Imagine how you would feel if you were confined to bed
and couldnt tell someone you needed to use the toilet. The problems
may not relate simply to hearing and speaking; communicating is really
about keeping in touch and being understood. Body language, including
touch, expression,
holding hands and so on, is also an important part of communication and
can signify a great deal, as well as making your relative feel wanted
and secure.
When you speak try to do so slowly and clearly. Ask
questions you know your relative will be able to answer, even if only
by shaking or nodding their head. Give the person plenty of time to respond.
Some people may have difficulty because they are blind or have a particular
disease or disorder, and you need to be aware of this. For example, someone
with Parkinsons disease may need time to start speaking; not answering
you immediately may be because they are thinking about what to say and
trying to form the words. If you misunderstand their silence and carry
on speaking yourself, they may lose their opportunity to communicate
with you. People with dementia may use the wrong words to express something
simply because they are the only words they can find. Try to interpret
what you feel the person is saying more than the words you hear if this
is the case. Be aware that in some cases you may hear mixed messages.
Be aware too that your relative may respond with verbal abuse, probably
because of frustration or because the wrong words come out. Try not to
let this bother you.
Sometimes there may be practical help that will improve communication. Difficulties
after a stroke may be helped by a speech therapist. Difficulties in hearing may
be helped by a hearing aid, although they are not always the answer; someone
who is confused or who has arthritis, for example, may find one difficult to
use, and it can take months of practice to get used to a new hearing aid. Your
GP can refer your relative to an NHS hearing aid clinic, where a doctor will
assess them, fit a suitable aid and teach them how to use it. Hearing aids are
also available privately, but they may be expen-sive and you should get advice
from your NHS clinic first. Other aids are also available, such as stereo listeners
for radio or television. The Royal National Institute for Deaf People can give
you more advice.
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TO COMFORT |
It is extremely
important to make sure your relative is comfortable, both for
the sake of their general feeling of well-being and to prevent
complications. Particularly:
- Ensure the bottom sheet has no wrinkles or
crumbs.
- Bed clothes should be loose enough to allow
movement
duvets are preferable to blankets.
- Pillows should be positioned to give support
to the back when your relative is sitting up.
- Special pressure-relieving mattresses and
beds can be obtained although they are expensive.
Ask your district nurse or local Disabled Living
Foundation centre about foam, gel or air cushions.
- Pillows may be positioned to prevent friction
and relieve pressure.
- Remember that you have to be extra careful
when making the bed, if your relative is using
a special mattress such as a low air loss mattress,
so that you dont impede its working.
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KEY POINTS
- Good personal care is of vital importance to maintain
morale and prevent health problems
- A daily bath or shower is essential for your relative
- Always wear disposable latex gloves when dealing
with body fluids
- Clothing can be adapted to simplify dressing
- It is important for everyone to eat a nutritionally
balanced diet
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